I’ve been taking my time before responding to the conversation about sexual assault spurred by Kelly Shibari’s accusation of Reid Mihalko. The original coverage of Kelly’s account and Reid’s response can be seen here and a list of further analysis, accountability statements, community response, and more can be found here. Let me start, as all writings about a sexual assault case should start: I believe Kelly. I stand with Kelly. I believe we all deserve to live in a world…